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THE RELATIONSHIP MASTERY PROGRAM

Join experts Jennifer Russell & Bryan Franklin for an 8-week program designed to help you find extraordinary love, breathe new life into your marriage, and become the leader everyone listens to in 8 weeks or less.

▶️ Meet the people who have experienced this work ▶️

What if you could predict how people will behave — and know exactly what to do about it?

In this 8-week program, we show you how to transform any important relationship in your life – romantic, professional, familial, or friendship – from ordinary to extraordinary.

Even if the other person isn't doing this work.

JENNIFER RUSSEL & BRYAN FRANKLIN ARE TRUSTED ADVISOR TO THE WORLDS MOST INFLUENTIAL LEADERS AT:

Most people misdiagnose what's actually wrong in their relationships

After decades coaching clients on love, business, and life, Jennifer Russell & Bryan Franklin found that one of the biggest blockers getting in the way of extraordinary relationships is this:

Most people try to solve relational problems at the individual level.

"I'm the problem."
"They're the problem."
"If only I could communicate better..."
"If only they would change..."

But the real problem is usually not the individual.

It's the 3rd entity in the relationship: the dynamic you create when you're together.

Across thousands of relationships, Bryan and Jennifer have proven that when you work at the dynamic level (not the individual level), relationships transform faster and more permanently.

That's what you'll be trained on in The Relationship Mastery Program beginning January 5th, 2026.

Every conflict holds a map back to connection if you know how to read it.

A proven system for decoding human behavior tested across 30,000+ coaching sessions.

The Hidden Anatomy of Every Argument

After analyzing thousands of relationship conflicts — from marriages on the brink of divorce to co-founders who lost trust — Bryan & Jennifer discovered that every relationship operates through 8 core polarities. These aren't personality types. They're dynamic tensions that exist between two people and they shift depending on context, stress, and emotional state.

1. Possibility ↔ Complaint

2. Freedom ↔ Avoidance

3. Passion ↔ Addiction

4. Truth ↔ Control

5. Appreciation ↔ Defense

6. Devotion ↔ Anxious

7. Partnership ↔ Codependence

8. Harmony ↔ Collapse

Most people get stuck in 2-3 of these patterns and repeat them in every relationship they are in — romantic, professional, and familial.

Here's what most people don't realize:

These dynamics aren't personality traits, they are dynamics to navigate, and once you see the dynamic, you can work with it in real time. This isn't about fixing yourself or changing the other person. It's about recognizing the dynamic and knowing the exact move that dissolves it.

Every conflict is a map to deeper connection when you know how to use it.

And, Most People Don't See The Dynamics Because They Believe These 6 Modern Relationship Myths:

Myth #1:

“It takes two to fix a relationship.”

The truth:
If you change the dynamic, the whole system reorganizes. You don't need two people doing the work — you just need one person who can see and understand the dynamic.

Myth #2:

“I should be loved for who I am.”

The truth:
Wanting to be loved “for who you are” keeps your identity fixed and your relationships fragile. Extraordinary relationships flip this: the dynamic becomes the stable foundation, and who you are expands inside it.

Myth #3:

"I'm right, they are wrong"

The truth:
Right vs. wrong is a distraction. In reality, you’re each expressing opposite sides of the same dynamic, and your complaint is simply a vision you haven’t learned to name yet.

Myth #4:

"They will never change"

The truth:
No one is one fixed way. We all change depending on the relationship dynamic we are in, when you can influence a dynamic, you can influence beahvior. If you know how to shift the pattern, you’ll see a side of them you didn’t know existed.

Myth #5:

"Relationships are work"

The truth:
It’s not the relationship creating the work, your unexamined triggers are the work and they will exist whether you are in relationship or not. The relationship is the
playground in which you finally get to transform them.

Myth #6:

"They are a bad communicator"

The truth:
Most “bad communication” is someone reacting to a dynamic that shuts them down. When you shift the dynamic, honesty and clarity tend to reappear naturally, without you needing to ask for it.

Want to understand the 8 drivers of human behavior — and which ones influence the people around you?

This System Works. Here's the Proof
This program gives you access to a new lens and perspective on modern relationships. It is a lens that has been tested by thousands of visionary couples and leaders who use it to master love, leadership, and any connection that matters to them.

Eben Pagan

"Bryan & Jennifer’s belief that we can all live extraordinary love stories has been a golden key that helped unlock one of the greatest treasure troves. For the past 6 years I’ve fallen deeper and deeper in love with the woman of my dreams. I’ve gone down the relational rabbit hole they not only pointed to but also provided a map for, and the results are nothing less than an experience of heaven on earth"

Shane Metcalf

"Bryan & Jennifer's belief that we can all live extraordinary love stories has been a golden key that unlock one of the greatest treasure troves. I've fallen deeper and deeper in love with the woman of my dreams. I've gone down the relational rabbit hole they mapped for us, and the results are nothing less than an experience of heaven on earth."

Amma Li Grace

"If you want an epic partnership, then there is really no question whether to work with Bryan and Jennifer. My partner and I had done 3 years of therapy, and we didn't see anywhere near the results. Bryan & Jennifer were able to pin point exactly where we were caught in those dynamics, it was humbling & so rewarding."

Kevin Kurgansky

“I honestly cannot even imagine trying do "love" or "relationships" without these tools. Do yourself a service and do whatever it takes to learn this. My partner and I got a series of tools to not only resolve our perpetual fights and conflicts, but also upgrade the very fabric of our relationship to become an exquisite crucible that allows us to transmute our problems into remarkable growth opportunities."

Julia Allison

"Bryan and Jennifer are two of the most revolutionary teachers of evolved partnership. Observing how they relate to each other permanently changed what I thought could be possible in a romantic partnership. After the honeymoon period, deep relationship can be an exhausting and sometimes frustrating experience. Bryan and Jennifer have successfully navigated this for themselves, and reverse engineered how others can navigate the rough currents of partnership.”

Maya Diamond

"I feel like I've been waiting for this information all my life. My lens of what a relationship can be has widened and expanded. I now have a definition and knowing of what an extraordinary / evolutionary relationship looks like / feels like and I know the way I do relationship and the way I work with my clients is forever changed."

Charmaine DeMello

"What's different about Bryan and Jennifer is that they embody the type of love that we were striving for, and have now. They're a living example of what they teach and what they guide you with. And that matters."

Annie Lala
"Bryan and Jennifer embody a unique face of love. It’s an extraordinary love to be surrounded by. They are my teachers and an inspiration to parts of me that I didn’t know could come alive. These are two of the most brilliant human beings I’ve ever known individually and in relationship and they have inspired me to love better."

Mike Clark

"For me, it's so important that the people that are teaching you have walked the path and have experienced what you're going through, because they've gone through it themselves, and they've come out the other side... And Bryan and Jennifer have that."

This is for people who refuse to settle for ordinary relationships:

If you want to fall more deeply in love with your current partner (Even if they aren't doing the work)

If you are a founder or manager who wants to lead & influence teams with more ease

If you want to improve your relationships with children, siblings, or parents

If you are single & have been looking for extraordinary love and partnership

WHO THIS IS FOR

Which of these statements are true for you?

If you checked any of these, this program will change your life.

WHO THIS IS FOR

Which of these statements are true for you?


☐ You know you are meant for extraordinary love, but fear you’ll never find it,


☐ You become someone you don’t like in conflict... sharp, needy, defensive.


☐ You switch relationships, but experience the same dynamics (despite working on yourself)


☐ You're questioning whether you have "picked the right partner"


☐ You've spent years working on yourself, and still feel unfulfilled relationally


☐ You’re terrified of repeating the same mistakes your parents made.


☐ You feel misunderstood in rooms where you
should feel confident.

If you checked any of these, you're unconsciously creating a dynamic and we want to show you the exact moves to get out of it. Read more to learn how.

💌 OUR PROMISE 💌

Transform any relationship that matters to you from ordinary to extraordinary in 8 weeks or less:

  • People will cease to confuse you – understand & predict why people behave the way they do, and to know what to do about it.

  • Understand what others find difficult about relating to you — so you can adjust in real time without losing yourself.

  • Know how to stay connected – to yourself and others – when every bone in your body wants to defend, collapse, or run.

  • A felt sense personal power you can’t lose – regardless of who you’re dealing with, no more collapsing or controlling.

  • Know how to ask for (and get) what you need – in life, work, and love – in a way that brings people closer instead of pushing them away.

  • Read and understand the underlying pattern beneath anyone’s triggers or reactions.

Learn exactly what makes it difficult (and extraordinary) to be in relationship with you

Across 8 weeks, you'll learn the underlying dynamics, skills, roles, shadow patterns, and polarities that drive all human behavior. You'll leave knowing how to dissolve conflict in real time, as well as prevent unnecessary drama upstream.

LIVE COACHING WITH JENNIFER & BRYAN

16 live sessions with Jennifer & Bryan

Mondays: Live Training Sessions
Learn the frameworks that decode every relational dynamic you're in. Gain new language to describe what's unfolding between you and others.

Fridays: Live Skills Lab
Bring real-life moments from your week—arguments, leadership challenges, family tensions—and get coached live by Bryan and Jennifer on everything covered Monday.

Week 1: SEE THE INVISIBLE GAME (& WHO YOU ARE IN IT)

Uncover the hidden architecture underneath every relationship you’re in, and map exactly where you are within it. We'll show you the 8 predictable patterns beneath all tension — whether subtle or extreme — in romantic, family, and work dynamics.

WEEK 2: EXIT THE COMPLAINT ↔ DEFENSE CYCLE

This week you see how to name what you need without provoking resistance. Ask for what you need in a way that doesn’t activate defensiveness, instead, inspires people to rise to meet you... even when they aren't doing the coursework or other work.

WEEK 3: EXIT THE CONTROL ↔ COLLAPSE CYCLE

Here we address power. You’ll learn how to share honestly with others without crushing them or, if you tend to collapse, how to stay solid no matter who you're talking to. This is the end of decades of over-functioning and under-functioning.

WEEK 4: EXIT THE ANXIOUS ↔ AVOIDANT CYCLE

This week builds emotional fluency. Instead of clinging, chasing, or withdrawing, you’ll master steady connection — even in the exact moment the dynamic activates. Learn how to reconnect when someone pulls away and turn “neediness” into a relational superpower instead of shame.

WEEK 5: EXIT THE ADDICTION ↔ CODEPENDENCE CYCLE

Here is where you create dynamics where Passion and Partnership coexist. This is where relationships become both exciting and sustainable. Balance aliveness with relational stability, passion without chaos and devotion without losing yourself.

WEEK 6: MASTER THE COUNTER MOVE

By now you know how to respond in the moment. This week is about prediction. You’ll master the ability to see issues before they happen — accurately predicting how someone is likely to react and knowing which move will bring out their best. This is all about relational intelligence.

WEEK 7: MASTER GROUP DYNAMICS

This week, we widen the lens and apply everything you’ve learned to groups. Navigate and soften polarization in teams, families, and communities — and learn to lead and bring out the best in others. You’ll start to see why certain rooms feel tense, why some teams never quite gel — and what to do about it.

WEEK 8: MAKE IT PERMANENT

This final week integrates everything so this work becomes automatica new perceptual lens, not a toolset you have to remember. Through a guided Integration Lab, you consolidate the intellectual, emotional, and behavioral layers into a unified way of being.

Across 8 weeks, dissolve the 8 toxic cycles and predict how people will react ahead of time.

Each week builds on the next, by the end you’re not “trying to remember” tools — you just experience relationship dynamics differently. Week by week breakdown:

Lifetime Access to The Relationship Mastery Toolkit

#1: The Ring of Resolution

A map of the 8 predictable patterns behind every conflict with the 8 remedies to dissolve them in real time, and 8 strategies to spot them before they unfold.

#2: Your Relational Blueprint
Take an assessment and get your relational fingerprint. Like a mirror to show you how you show up when you feel safe, and who you become when you don’t.

#3: Your Relational Dynamics Profile
A summary of your primary gifts and shadow patterns, showing you how to return to your center no matter who you're relating with.

#4: 64 Relationship Roles & 64 Shadow Roles Matrix

Access to the matrix of all 64 roles, along with 16 video transmissions and audio explainers to help you spot and track when you or others are showing up in one of the roles—and what to do about it.

Everything you need to make long-term change

Private Community

Relationship Dynamics are constantly in flux, so you have access to drop questions for Bryan and Jennifer between sessions in a private community group — to ask questions, get feedback.

Lifetime Access

Growth doesn’t end when the program does. You’ll have lifetime access to every video and all materials so you can revisit them anytime a new relationship challenge arises.

Money Back Guarantee

If you go through the entire program, participate fully in all the live sessions, complete all the exercises and bonuses and still aren't satisfied, we will refund you within our 60-day refund period.

Unlock the 8 hidden ‘codes’ behind influence, intimacy & insight to create extraordinary relationships.

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Here's what you'll get...

  • 8 Weeks of Live Training (16 Sessions):
    2 weekly sessions with Bryan & Jennifer

    8x1.5hr Training Sessions (content, discussion, Q&A)
    8x
    1.5hr Skills Labs (application, demo, Q&A, practice)
    (Value $8,000)

  • Library of Videos, Workbooks, Slides, & Exercises:
    Lifetime access to all the session recordings uploaded within 48 hours of the session, bonus content, graphics, diagrams, recordings, exercises, PDFs, etc.
    (Value $1,000)

  • Ring Of Resolution Guide: Roadmap To Permanent Change:
    One you see this, you can't unsee it. Understand the 8 core dynamics in every relationship - resolve conflict in real time, and predict behaviour upstream to prevent drama before it happens.
    (Value $800)

  • 64 Relationship Roles & 64 Shadow Roles Matrix:
    There are various relationship roles we tend to take when we are at our best and various roles we take when we are dysregulated and triggered. You'll get access to the matrix of all 64 along with 16 explainer videos.
    (Value $100)

  • BONUS#1 Relationship Dynamics Summary Profile:
    A summary that reveals your primary relationship gift, shadow pattern, and the toxic cycle you tend to get caught in. An exclusive participant discount to unlock your FULL PROFILE and a BONUS 24 Lesson Companion Course, Audiobook and a 70 page PDF.
    (Value $500)

  • BONUS#2 Private Membership To The Community:
    Daily, weekly, & monthly support to get all of your questions answered between sessions.
    (Value $1,000)

Total Package Value:

$13,500

Enroll Today: Special Promotional Price

$2497

$597

Unlock the Hidden ‘Codes’ Behind Influence, Intimacy, and Insight.

JENNIFER RUSSELL & BRYAN FRANKLIN, CO-FOUNDERS OF THE RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS INSTITUTE

This is the first time Jennifer Russel and Bryan Franklin will run a program giving you a front row seat to the relational system they have developed, optimized and tested with thousands of Fortune-500 founders and visionary couples use to master love, leadership, and connection.

Between them, they have delivered 30,000+ coaching sessions, helped 12 companies reach $1B, led 20+ years of high-impact transformational programs, spoken on stages all of the world, are both TedX speakers, and successfully trained thousands of coaches, leaders, couples, and individuals in the exact frameworks you’ll learn inside this program.

They’ve analyzed thousands of relationship conflicts — from couples to co-founders to family breakdowns — and pressure-tested their frameworks inside some of the most complex relational environments, with some of the highest-performing people in the world and the results remain consistent.

In addition to the rigorous testing and thousands of success stories they have... Bryan and Jennifer are two of the top 0.1% of executive coaches and draws from decades of mastery in a unique and broad range of modalities — including NLP, parts work, family systems, attachment theory, polarity dynamics, evolutionary psychology, leadership practices, bioenergetics, trauma healing, nonviolent communication, systems thinking, and dozens more.

Through their research, they co-founded the Relationship Dynamics Institute, where they lead retreats, workshops, and courses designed to rewrite relational DNA and help people create extraordinary relationships that are secure, connected, and deeply alive.

Whether they are working with a couple on the edge of collapse, co-founders rebuilding trust, or an individual longing for extraordinary love, their work always produces consistent and repeatable results:

When you understand the dynamics underneath a relationship, you can transform the relationship — permanently.

JENNIFER & BRYAN ARE TRUSTED ADVISORS TO SOME OF THE WORLDS MOST INFLUENTIAL LEADERS

1. When does the next cohort begin and how long does it run?

The next cohort begins January 5th 2026 and runs for 8 weeks. Sessions are held every Monday and Friday. Once you join, you’ll receive all session dates and a calendar link to add them directly.

2. Can I join with my partner?

Yes. You’re absolutely welcome to join with your partner — one enrollment covers both of you. You can do the sessions and exercises together, or individually, depending on what feels right for your relationship.

3. Do I need to be in a relationship to join?

Not at all. This program isn’t just for couples — it’s for anyone who wants to transform the way they relate. Many of our most powerful participants are singles, family members, or leaders who want to learn how to create extraordinary relationships in every area of life.

4. What happens if I can’t attend all the sessions live?

Every session is recorded and uploaded within 48 hours (usually less). You’ll also have lifetime access to all recordings and materials, so you can rewatch or catch up anytime.

5. Is there a community or group component?

Yes. You’ll have access to a private Community of Practice — a space where you can connect with others who are doing this work, share insights, and get support between sessions. It’s completely optional, but most participants find it deeply supportive.

6. What’s the difference between the assessment, the profile, and the Ring of Resolution?

Think of them as layers of mastery:

– The Relationship Assessment helps you see who you are in conflict.

– The Relational Dynamics Profile shows you how your patterns play out — and how to return to your center.

– The Ring of Resolution Map gives you the framework to understand and transform any dynamic with anyone, in real time.

Together, they form a complete toolkit for relational mastery.

7. Will there be other cohorts or retreats in the future?

This is the only scheduled cohort for now, though we do occasionally host in-person retreats for graduates who want to go deeper. Joining this program ensures you’re the first to know when those open up.

Every conflict holds the key to our next evolution.

This program offers the most comprehensive map to understand yourself and the people who matter most to you. After, people will cease to confuse you.

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