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"Bryan & Jennifer's belief that we can all live extraordinary love stories has been a golden key that helped unlock one of the greatest treasure troves. For the past 6 years I've fallen deeper and deeper in love with the woman of my dreams. I've gone down the relational rabbit hole they not only pointed to but also provided a map for, and the results are nothing less than an experience of heaven on earth."
“I’ve spent multi-hour sessions with them and it was very unifying. They have this uncanny ability to really allow you to see your partner’s perspectives and have your partner see yours. I saw a whole new way of doing love—got a whole new set of distinctions, new ideas, and new ways of seeing things. These are a couple of the best in the world.”
Welcome
This is where your deepest desires meet your most profound fears. It’s where you meet the edge of your limitations and learn to expand beyond them.
Maybe you have moments of feeling frustrated, insecure, unseen/unheard, smothered, under-nourished, or not completely loved the way that you want. Maybe you’ve even decided these feelings are a “normal” part of relationships.
Come to this course to rewrite your relationship DNA and break free from some of these patterns. Discover how you might be unintentionally leaking safety and trust out of your relationship.
Learn to use any conflict that arises as an opportunity to connect and grow as you learn how to dismantle your projections and safely heal old hurts.
This course is not for the faint of heart. It’s for the courageous, the bold, and the daring. It’s for those who are willing to face their shadows and transmute them into light. It’s for those who are ready to step into their power and show up fully in their relationships.
This course is more than just a series of teachings…
It’s an invitation to a deeper, more intimate connection with yourself and the people you are closest to..
It’s an opportunity to explore the depths of your desires and fears.
It’s a chance to embody the evolutionary qualities of Possibility, Appreciation, Truth, Harmony, Freedom, Devotion, Passion and Partnership,
It’s a journey of self-discovery and self-realization.
If you’re ready to dive deep into what it means to life a more 'relational' life...
if you’re ready to face your shadows and transmute them into light...
if you’re ready to step into your power and show up fully in your relationships...
then join us on this journey of transformation.
Identify the 4 most common ‘toxic cycles’ at the hart of all conflict - exploring the patterns you get caught in most
Learn the 5 R’s of Conflict Resolution, uncovering what you are already doing naturally and what you might be leaving out
Discover specifically how you might be polarizing the people you relate to most in predictable ways and how to spot and unwind that behavior for both of you
Master the art of regulation, empathy, tracking, and de-escalating without giving up your truth
Diagnose what to do when you get triggered express your needs and commit to a new future.
Learn how to reinterpret your blind spots and create a new narrative for your relationships.
Discover 8 remedies that will help serve as exit ramps for the most common toxic cycles we all tend to get caught in so you have another choice in those moments of challenge
Receive personalized and comprehensive insights during our interactive calls to more fully understand yourself and those you are relating to now
Resolve once and for all your most painful recurring patterns and find out how to make sure your past conflicts don’t come back to haunt you
Learn the critical relationship skills that will set you up to be an even better partner, collaborator, family member, or friend.
You'll have access to video lessons, written materials, and lively interactive group discussions, so you can both learn at your own pace and get personalized support.
Discover the 5 essential steps to resolving conflicts permanently
Learn which of these steps you might be doing naturally and which are your growth edge
Practice how to turn conflict into an opportunity for healing and connection
Learn about the 8 toxic cycles that are at the center of all relationship conflicts
Discover the 8 relationship gifts that act as an exit ramp from our toxic cycles
Identify your unique relationship gifts and your primary and secondary shadow patterns
Discover practical techniques to regulate your emotions and return to a calm state
Cultivate presence and awareness to stay grounded even in challenging situations
Practice how to co-regulate with your partner, learning what each person needs most
Develop empathy and understanding for your partner's perspective
Learn to hold space for your partner's emotions and needs
Practice tracking and de-escalating conflicts to prevent them from escalating furthe
Identify limiting beliefs and stories that are impacting your relationship
Learn to reframe your thoughts and create a new narrative for your relationship
Practice dynamic listening and how to hold multiple perspectives to understand the situation more fully
Practice communicating your needs effectively and clearly to your partner
Develop a shared vision and commitment to your future together
Learn to make conscious choices that support your relationship goals
Learn how to release any lingering resentment or pain
Cultivate long lasting compassion for yourself and your partner
Practice undefended requests for feedback to tend to the ongoing health of your relationship
Practice the ‘Perfect Vision’ Conflict Resolution Process
Develop a plan to integrate the relational skills and strategies learned in the course.
Discover how to maintain a healthy and thriving relationship for the long-term.
My Dearest Sisters,
I see you, I hear you, and I feel your pain.
I want you to know that I honor your journey.
I can sense your heart aching with a longing for healing, for a deeper
understanding and connection, for an end to the cycles of shaming and blaming that have caused so much pain in our relationships.
My sister, you are not alone in your longing
When we disrespect men, we disrespect ourselves.
We become desensitized and disconnected from our own feminine power.
We forget that our unique gifts and messages for the masculine are essential for the balance of the world.
We forget that we are powerful beyond measure and that we have the ability to transform the world with our love far better than with our fury
This course is an opportunity for us to heal the wounds that have kept us from fully expressing ourselves in our relationships to step into this space of love and transformation with us.
Dearest Men.
We see you. We see the weight you carry, the burdens you bear, and the struggles you face.
We see the depth of your heart, the passion in your soul, and the potential within you.
You are not broken. You are simply human, with all the messy complexities and contradictions that come with that. And it is precisely those complexities that make you beautiful, that make you worthy of evolutionary love.
When we use our power with any force or push, it’s a sign we might actually be feeling powerless ourselves because the greatest power, requires the lightest touch and it is in this gentle power that we learn how to wield it responsibly.
Let us heal the divide between men and women, and create a world where love and respect are the foundation of all our relationships.
Together Jennifer Russell and Bryan Franklin have done over 30,000 coaching sessions and have led 20+ years of impactful transformational programs and events designed to liberate people from self-imposed limiting beliefs and unlock their evolutionary potential. They incorporate the best of Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP), the human potential movement, family systems, attachment theory, collaborative systems, neuroscience, spiritual practices, tribal circling technologies, and sacred theater.
They are the co-founders of the Relationship Dynamics Institute where they facilitate a series of retreats, workshops, and courses designed to rewrite your relational DNA so that you can embody your ideal loveTogether Jennifer Russell and Bryan Franklin have done over 30,000 paid sessions and have led 20+ years of impactful transformational courses, retreats, and programs incorporating the best of Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP), the human potential movement, family systems, attachment theory, parts work, collaborative systems, evolutionary psychology, spiral dynamics,, spiritual practices, and sacred theater. They’ve analyzed thousands of relationship fights and have developed a unique Perfect Vision Conflict Resolution process that’s famous for rewriting relational patterns and permanently resolving conflicts.
At the Relationship Dynamics Institute they developed the Relationship Dynamics Quiz and Profile which is one of the most comprehensive assessments designed to help you understand which of the 64 relationship stances you tend to take and how to identify and exit some of your most persistent patterns. They also work individually with couples and singles and facilitate a series of online courses, retreats, and workshops designed to rewrite your relational DNA so that you upgrade your relating and create healthier relationships.
They are a stand for relationships that have a 'both / and' rather than an 'either / or' attitude and realize the true potential that healing the divide between the masculine and feminine has on creating a healed, healthy, and whole culture.They have a large body of work that focuses on helping singles and couples build the 3 pillars of any great relationship which are 1) How to set the direction of your relationship (creating a relationship vision), 2) How to handle the valleys (rewriting patterns and permanently resolving conflict), and 3) How to create the peaks (going from ordinary to extraordinary).
Without the source code for how healthy and powerful relationships work, you might end up getting stuck circling the same patterns. The Relationship Dynamics work is designed to create permanent relationship breakthroughs with step-by-step support to break free of persistent patterns & reignite your relationships.
Come ready to unearth the blindspots and core patterns that are likely in the way from you finding true love and partnership. Learn how to heal insecure attachment whether you are an avoidant type who tends to run away or need space OR whether you are an anxious type that tends to cling and hold too tightly to love. Learn how to re-parent your wounded child so that you show up to your next relationship conscious, whole and complete.
Develop an evolutionary context for why you are in relationship to begin with that will inspire your future partner to want to take that journey alongside you.
Maybe you sometimes feel frustrated, insecure, unseen/unheard, smothered, under-nourished, or not completely loved the way that you want. Maybe you’ve even decided these feelings are a “normal” part of relationships. Come ready to do the practices and have the conversations that will help you break free of some of these patterns.
Discover how you might be unintentionally leaking safety and trust out of your relationships. Learn to use conflict as an opportunity to connect and grow as you dismantle projections, embrace each other’s shadows, and heal old hurts.
We’ll guide you as you co-create an inspiring and evolutionary context for your relationship, up-leveling the way you relate and learning how to diffuse most conflict before it starts. Enjoy lively discussions, experiential exercises and profound conversations that will spark growth and help you avoid misunderstandings.
Get a personalized plan that outlines how to best love your partner given your unique gifts and theirs.
Come dialogue with us about your deepest questions surrounding love and intimacy.
You don’t have to convince your partner to do this course with you in order to use the skills and conflict resolution process to heal old hurts in your relationship. Either partner can guide the conversation, and we’ll teach you how to make it easy for your partner to resolve conflicts with you, even if you think they are resistant to learning or following a “process”.
Of course, it is also fabulous to do this course with your partner, creating juicy conversations and intimate moments together.
We’ve designed the exercises, practices, and live course interaction to work great if you are with your partner and work great if you are on your own. When it comes to resolving conflict, it only takes one of you to be willing to go first and lead.
Those who are not interested in learning about their relationship patterns or improving their communication
People who are not willing to invest the time and effort necessary to create lasting change in their relationship.
Individuals who are looking for a quick fix or a magic solution to their relationship problems
Those who are not open-minded and willing to try new approaches to building stronger relationships
Couples who are in abusive or violent relationships
IMPORTANT: Please note that this course is not intended for couples who are in abusive or violent relationships. If you are experiencing abuse or violence in your relationship, please seek professional help immediately.
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“My partner and I got a series of tools to not only resolve our perpetual fights and conflicts, but also upgrade the very fabric of our relationship to become an exquisite crucible that allows us to transmute our problems into remarkable growth opportunities.Image Feature I honestly cannot even imagine trying do "love" or "relationships" without these tools. Do yourself a service and do whatever it takes to learn this."
Kevin Kurgansky
The Breakup Doctor
"Bryan and Jennifer are two of the most revolutionary teachers of evolved partnership. Observing how they relate to each other permanently changed what I thought could be possible in a romantic partnership After the honeymoon period, deep relationship can be an exhausting and sometimes frustrating experience. Bryan and Jennifer have successfully navigated this for themselves, and reverse engineered how others can navigate the rough currents of partnership.”
Julia Allison
Media & PR Consultant
"I feel like I've been waiting for this information all my life. My lens of what a relationship can be has widened and expanded. I now have a definition and knowing of what an extraordinary/ evolutionary relationship looks like/feels like and I know the way I do relationship and the way I work with my clients is forever changed."
Maya Diamond
MFT Therapist, MA
Absolutely. Budding new couples are very welcome and encouraged to take this course. We can’t think of a better way to start a relationship than to begin with the kinds of evolutionary conversations and practices we’ll be doing throughout this course. Taking a close look at the [insert] that had your previous relationships end is step one in creating a new relationship that doesn’t repeat that pattern.
Yes, this course can be taken if you are currently single! This course is very valuable for anyone not currently in a relationship that wants practice with how to handle some of the difficulties that come up when in relationship with anyone -a romantic partner, business colleague, family member, or friend. It’s always the right time to address in yourself any patterns that might be playing themselves out in an unhealthy way in your relationship. This is true whether you happen to be single right now or in a committed partnership.
If you are single right now, come to this course if you want to learn how to create conscious healthy relationships right from the start. Come ready to unearth the blindspots and core patterns that are likely in the way from you finding love and partnership with those around you.
Learn how to heal insecure attachment whether you are an avoidant type who tends to run away or need space OR whether you are an anxious type that tends to cling and hold too tightly to love.
Develop an evolutionary context for why you are in relationship to begin with that will inspire your future partner to want to take that journey alongside you.
You have the option of taking this course with or without your partner for an additional $1. If you include your partner’s details (name and email) they will also get their own login and will be encouraged to take our Relationship Dynamics Quiz. You can take this course on your own to learn about yourself, the patterns and cycles you tend to get caught in and how to de-escalate and fully resolve conflicts. It really only takes one of you willing to choose one of the 8 core 'exit ramps' we will be teaching you to begin the process of ending your conflicts. So you are welcome to take this alone OR with have you and your partner participate together so you can each learn these critical relationship skills.
Yes. It’s always the right time to learn valuable relationship skills to help you navigate the common challenges that tend to come up in nearly all relationships. It's also always valuable to more fully understand yourself and others more deeply. Participating in a course like this when you are single is a great way for you to reflect on your past relationships and persistent patterns you might have typically gotten caught in and put into practice one of the 8 core 'exit ramps' that are designed to create real breakthroughs in your relationships. This course will help translate some of this knowledge gained from your Relationship Dynamics Profile and turn it into new habits and behaviors as you practice in a fun and interactive environment with like minded people as everyone is taking through all 5 R's of our unique conflict resolution process.
The short answer is yes. If you are in a relationship that’s having trouble, come to this course to rise above conflict and the patterns that create it and get step-by-step instructions on how to de-escalate and re-ignite your relationship into the love story it was meant to be.
Maybe you sometimes feel frustrated, insecure, unseen/unheard, smothered, under-nourished, or not completely loved the way that you want. Maybe you’ve even decided these feelings are a “normal” part of relationships.
Come to this course to rewrite your relationship DNA and break free from some of these patterns. Discover how you might be unintentionally leaking safety and trust out of your relationship.
Learn to use conflict as an opportunity to connect and grow as you learn how to dismantle your projects and safely heal old hurts.
There are some notable exceptions in cases of abuse, psychological or mental challenges, a history of physical or chemical abuse, and severe trauma which we would encourage and recommend getting 1-on-1 support from a trained professional.
If you are a couple in bliss, you are already committed to having the best relationship possible. Come to this course to practice the conversations and practices that will raise your relational quotient, learning to further develop the relational skills that will support you in maintaining an extraordinary relationship that continues to be consciousness, healthy, and set up to thrive. We give you the tools to make sure your blissful relationship stays that way.
We’ll teach you the distinctions that turn relationships from ordinary to extraordinary, and guide you as you co-create the evolutionary context to your relationship, up-leveling the way you relate and diffusing most conflict before it starts.
Enjoy deep experiential exercises to keep your relationships hot and nearly drama free.
Come ready to dive in with us and others who are excited to explore their deepest questions surrounding love, relationship, and intimacy.
This is an important question as you want your partner in your corner and perhaps even taking this alongside you. What we recommend is for you to think about and express to your partner the difference you feel this Course will make in your lives.
How will a small investment of your time and energy lead to a whole new outlook on your relationship and your day to day interactions? How it will improve your feelings about yourself? How it will improve your feelings about your partner? What new doors will open for you? How will it make you a better partner, lover, family member, and friend? And how all of that will contribute to a more fulfilling life. Then sit back and just listen. If your partner would like to contact us to have an exploratory call they can schedule that call with us by click here ‘Schedule an Appointment’ and we are happy to talk about their participation with someone on our team who can help them get clear.
Once you register, you’ll receive both a link to the Relationship Archetype Quiz which we recommend everyone fill out prior to beginning the course. In it you’ll be asked some questions about your current relationship gifts & qualities, your most common patterns and cycles, your communication style, your biggest doubts and fears, what tends to trigger you most, etc. These questions will help us generate a personalized and comprehensive profile so that the solutions we go over in the course are tailored to your particular patterns and relationships.
If you happen to be taking this course with someone, have them also fill out their quiz so they have their own Relationship Archetype Profile.
Once you do that you are ready to begin - come with an open mind and an open heart ready to dive in to the 8 exit ramps and 5 stages of complete conflict Resolution that will help you permanently resolve your conflicts.
- Find out about the 4 most common toxic cycles that are at the heart of nearly all conflict
- learning which ones you get caught in most and how you might be polarizing your pattern in predictable ways.
- Recognize what to do when you get triggered and how to de-escalate without giving up your truth
- Get a personalized and comprehensive Relationship Archetype Profile where you'll get key insights about the relationship dynamics you are experiencing now
- Learn the 5 Phases of Conflict Resolution...which ones you might be doing naturally and which ones you are leaving out
- Discover why being good at "conflict resolution" - the way its normally taught - can actually hurt your relationships
- Discover the 8 exit ramps that will help you end conflict and build a more extraordinary relationship.
- Resolve once and for all your most painful recurring patterns and find out how to make sure your past conflicts don't come back to haunt your next relationship
- Learn the critical relationship skills that will set you up to be an even better partner, collaborator, family member, or friend.
We have a payment plan available for those that find it easier to pay smaller installments OR you can receive the discounted rate if you are able to pay it all at once.
It’s our belief that an investment in the quality of your relating with others has a bigger impact than almost any other area you could spend your attention on. We get it. We’d like to offer you a new way of thinking that about this that will change the way you relate to yourself around money.
Instead of focusing on why you can’t have what you want, start focusing on HOW you can and what the cost of not investing in this area will be a few months or years from now? Calculate how many hours of repeated patterns, headaches, hurts, and disappointments it would take to facilitate this kind of change…it would certainly be worth way more than that. Notice how much more empowering that is then feeling like you are trapped or don’t get to have what you desire. Focus on how you CAN.
Next you can use a credit card to make the payment or can ask for the people in your life to help sponsor, loan, or gift you a ticket to come.
What we can guarantee is that you will be immersed in an incredible [live or online?] environment with a group of people earnestly invested in up-leveling the way they love and relate to one another in an experiential and transformational space facilitated by Bryan Franklin and Jennifer Russell to help you have a permanent breakthrough in your relationship.
Of that we can be sure…of the rest, it’s all really based on what you decide to bring and the lens you choose to experience this course through. We encourage you to take accountability for the quality of your experience and gleaning the maximum amount of value that is meaningful to you.
We currently have a 3-day cooling off period from the date of purchase during which time you can request in writing to get a 100% Refund of your money back no questions asked. You can also read our full Participation Agreement which has this policy in it.
The course takes place Live online on 8xinteractive zoom call on Thursdays at 5:00PM - 7:30PM Pacific beginning May 8th and ends June 26th. There are skills and exercises we recommend that you practice with your small group once a week for 1 hour in addition to the 2.5 hrs of the calls. So the time commitment is between 20 - 30 hours.
In addition we commend that you take the quiz prior to the start of the course (15-20min) and review your profile 1-3hrs.
Connect with a group of extraordinary people who are committed to up-leveling how they show up in their relationships. There you’ll be able to join the conversation and access free courses, free resources, live masterclasses, post and get answers to your deepest questions.
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