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THE RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS QUIZ

Which of the 64 Relationship Stances are you bringing to your relationships?

Take our FREE Quiz to uncover the keys to understanding your greatest gifts, your most persistent patterns, which of the 8 toxic cycles you tend to get caught in most and what to do about it. Access your results now andlearn how to unlock your full profile.

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Take it together or alone (or multiple times)

Take it on your own to learn more about yourself  OR take it with a romantic partner, business colleague, family member, or friend to understand the relationship dynamics going on between you. You can retake this quiz anytime with the people you interact with most.

Discover your unique gifts & patterns

Gain personalized insights about your strengths and gifts while uncovering which of the 8 toxic cycles you get caught in most to help you understand yourself and the people you interact with most. Access a 50+ page profile and a 24 Lesson Step by Step Guide.

Learn skills to improve your relationship

Gain practical relationship skills for building stronger, healthier, and more fulfilling relationships. This  Relationship Dynamics Profile analyzes 24 key areas, 8 relational gifts and 8 shadow patterns  to help you learn how to be a better partner. Unlock your profile to get remedies and skills to help you.

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ACCESS THE MOST COMPREHENSIVE RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS PROFILE AVAILABLE

Take this Quiz and you'll get your FREE Relationship Dynamics Report and, learn more about how to unlock your full Profile (60+ pages) which includes a step by step 23-lesson course to help you learn about yourself, your loved ones and build the skills to create stronger, healthier, more lasting love.

WHO SHOULD TAKE THIS QUIZ?

ANYONE CAN TAKE THIS QUIZ AND IT'S MOST ACCURATE WHEN YOU FOCUS ON A PARTICULAR RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU'D LIKE TO PROFILE...

Romantic Partner

Business Colleague

Family Member

Friend

WHAT YOU'LL DISCOVER WHEN YOU UNLOCK YOUR PROFILE

A Comprehensive Owner's Manual For Understanding Yourself & Others

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DISCOVER YOUR SPECIFIC GIFTS, SHADOWS PATTERNS, TOXIC CYCLES & STANCES

Learn how your greatest relationship gifts positively impact the people you interact with and how to communicate effectively with people who might have different gifts. Feel caught in a loop having the same argument again and again? Are you wanting to find an exit strategy out of those patterns? This profile will tell you what you might be doing to predictable polarize others and also how you might be inspiring the people around you too.

There is a companion online course that comes along with your profile that provdies a step-by step guide that can help point the way to healing that toxic cycle permanently.

DISCOVER YOUR SPECIFIC GIFTS, SHADOWS, & STANCE

Learn how your gift of positively impacts your most important relationships and how to communicate effectively with people who might not share your gift. Feel caught in a loop of ? This step-by step guide points the way to healing that toxic cycle permanently.

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DISCOVER & IMPROVE THE WAY YOU COMMUNICATE & DECISION MAKE EXPLORING YOUR UNIQUE STYLES

Discover which of the 4 different qualities 8 different styles make up your communication profile and get a detailed decision making profile to explore how your natural tendencies likely make some situations easy for you to navigate while others you might find more challenging.

Once you’ve learned your communication style, you can watch out for the common pitfalls and shadows that crop up for you and how to use your unique gifts to make sure communication and decision making with you is always clear, impactful, and effective.

EVOLVE THE WAY YOU COMMUNICATE & COLLABORATE

Learn about explicit, implicit, reactive, and repressive communication styles and how your natural tendencies make some situations easy for you to navigate and others more challenging. Once you’ve learned your communication style, you can watch out for the common pitfalls and use your unique gifts to make sure communication with you is always clear, impactful, and effective.

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LEARN YOUR UNCONSCIOUS ENERGY PATTERNS & HOW YOU HANDLE STRESS & EXCITEMENT IN YOUR LIFE

How do you handle stress in your relationships? Learn which of the 8 ways people are conditioned to handle stress and how it shows up in your posture, gestures, arguments and emotions. Learn what you do to compensate and protect yourself physically and emotionally when this happens and how others tend to perceive you when you do.

Learn how you can regulate your nervous system, release stress, and restore yourself to a more resourced state so you can show up for your partner as your best self.

LEARN YOUR UNCONSCIOUS ENERGY PATTERNS

How do you handle stress in your relationships? Learn which of the 8 distinct ways we tend to become conditioned to handle these stresses and how they show up in your posture, gestures, patterns of tension, and which emotions tend to get repressed or expressed. Learn how you can regulate your nervous system, release stress, and restore yourself to a more resourced state.

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MAP YOUR TOP 2 CONFLICT & RESOLUTION STRATEGIES & 5 PERSONALIZED SKILLS TO DEVELOP IN YOURSELF

Most conflicts never get resolved. The period of tension and upset may pass and apologies may be offered and even accepted, but unless the conflict is fully resolved, resentment often lives on. This profile will look at your top 2 goto strategies that you use when you are upset and in conflict.

We'll also look at how you tend to help resolve situations between yourself and others as we look at what comes naturally to you and also what might be a growth edge for you. If you upgrade to the course, you'll discover the 5 essential phases of conflict resolution and how your current conflict strategies might be polarizing your interactions in predictable ways. Get the key to developing the missing phases to permanently resolve your conflicts.

MAP YOUR CONFLICT AND RESOLUTION STYLES

Most conflicts never get resolve - the period of tension and upset may pass and apologies may be offered and even accepted, but unless the conflict is fully resolved, a pocket of resentment often lives on. We’ve identified 5 important stages of any successful conflict resolution process for it to fully resolve. Learn how your current conflict strategies might be polarizing your interactions in predictable ways and which of these stages you might develop to more permanently resolve your conflicts.

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LEARN HOW YOU BRING ROMANCE & KEEP THE SPARK ALIVE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

You can take this with a family member, business colleague, or friend too but if you choose to profile a romantic partner (current or former), you'll unlock 6 qualities that are part of identifying your particular romantic profile.

Learn more about what kind of attraction strategies you tend to use and what natural skills you bring to your romantic relationships and also any shadow patterns that you might get caught in that could be causing you to either lose the spark or create unwanted friction for you and your partner. Learn the strengths and blindspots of your style to create more passion and attraction with your partner.

LEARN WHAT KIND OF LOVER YOU ARE

Learn more about what kind of attraction strategies you tend to use and what natural skills you bring to your romantic relationships and also any shadow patterns that you might get caught in that could be causing you to either lose the spark or create unwanted friction for you and your partner.

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GET 20+ LESSONS, PRACTICES & EXERCISES

If you decide to upgrade to receive our profile and the companion tsep by step course you’ll receive the most comprehensive relationship profile we've ever seen along. with the 23 lesson Mastering Your Relationship Dynamics Course that will help guide you step by step into understanding yourself and and whoever you profiled turning that knowledge into practice. Learn what will work best for your specific relationship.

24 LESSONS + 21 RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS PRACTICES

You’ll receive one of the most COMPREHENSIVE profiles ever created of the dynamics that are most active in your relationships right now. It’s been custom built for you, with detailed commentary on each section of your profile. Make 2024 your best relationship year yet! Not all are created equal. Learn what will work best for your specific relationship.

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AND DOZENS OF OTHER TENDENCIES, AND SENSITIVITIES THAT SHAPE THE WAY YOU RELATE

Your upgraded profile includes a 23 Lesson course that will walk you through understanding your full profile step by step. Gain a deeper understanding of the relationship gifts you bring to your partner, to your decision-making and even your parenting along with identifying, your primary needs and even your biggest doubts and fears. You can't change what you don't understand.

AND DOZENS OF OTHER STYLES, TENDENCIES, AND SENSITIVITIES THAT SHAPE THE WAY YOU LOVE

Your upgraded profile includes a 24 Lesson course that will walk you through understanding your profile step by step. Gain a deeper understanding of the relationship gifts you bring to your partner, to your decision making and even to your parenting along with identifying, your primary, needs, the themes you tend to explore, and even your biggest doubts and fears.

ABOUT THE CREATORS OF THE RELATIONSHIP DYNAMIC PROFILE

JENNIFER RUSSELL & BRYAN FRANKLIN

CO-FOUNDERS, RELATIONSHIP DYNAMIC INSTITUTE

Jennifer Russell & Bryan Franklin Co-Founders Relationship Dynamics Institute
Jennifer Russell & Bryan Franklin Co-Founders Relationship Dynamics Institute

Over 30,000 paid coaching sessions and transformational programs over the last 20 years

Together Jennifer Russell and Bryan Franklin have done over 30,000 paid coaching sessions and have led 20+ years of impactful transformational courses, retreats, and programs  incorporating  the best of Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP), the human potential movement, family systems, attachment theory, parts work, collaborative systems, evolutionary psychology, spiral dynamics, spiritual practices, and sacred theater. They’ve analyzed thousands of relationship fights and have developed a comprehensive Relationship Dynamics Profile and a unique Perfect Vision Conflict Resolution process that’s famous for rewriting relational patterns and permanently resolving conflicts.

Take this FREE Quiz to find out your #1 Relationship Stance, your greatest Gifts, your primary Shadow pattern and which Toxic Cycle you get caught in most.

WHAT'S INCLUDED IN THIS PROFILE

Relatiojnship Dynamics Description

Access To The Community: Discussions & Support

Your Relationship Stance: Which of the 64 are you?

Your Shadow Stance: Which of the 64 do you get caught in?

Your Results Summary: 18 Categories of Rankings & Scores

Find Out Your Top Relationship Qualities & Strengths

Explore The Primary Relationship Gifts You Bring

Look At Your Shadow Qualities & The History Behind Them

Get Our Guide To How To Understand Your Results

Explore The Ring Of Resolution: What we are fighting about

Learn Which Shadow Patterns You Get Caught In

Explore Your Primary & Secondary Life’s Themes

Discover Whether Your Reference Is Internal vs Exteral

Learn Your 4 Tendencies: Your Values & What You Admire

Your 4 Sensitivities: What Side You Taken In Conflict

Explore Your Primary & Secondary Needs

Uncover Your Primary & Secondary Doubts & Fears

Explore Your Primary & Secondary Triggers

Discover Your Energetic Profile: It’s Gifts & Shadows

Analysis Of Your Communication Profile Gifts & Shadows

Analysis Of Your Decision Making & How You Collaborate

Discover Your Primary & Secondary Toxic Cycle Remedies

Learn How To Develop Better Communication

Understand Ways To Improve Your Decision Making

Understand How To Remedy Your Toxic Cycles

Discover Your Unique Resolution Strategy to End Conflict

Get A Set of 6 Personalized Relationship Skills To Develop

A 10-Chapter Owner’s Manual: How To Partner With You

22 Explainer Videos To Help You Understand Your Profile

A 60+ Chapter Personalized Audiobook: Listen On The Go

21 Practices & Practical Tools To UpgradeYour Relating

Get Special Discounts That MORE Than Pay For The Upgrade

8-Session Permanent Relationship Breakthrough Course

FREE

SUMMARY

PARTIAL PROFILE PDF

FULL PDF + COURSE

FULL PDF + COURSE + PERMANENT

BREAKTHROUGH

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

1. What is the Relationship Dynamics Profile?

The Relationship Dynamics Profile is a comprehensive 23 section profile that analyzes your responses to the 20+ questions in our quiz to calculate which of the 8 primary gifts and which of the 8 primary shadow patterns you tend to bring most to your relationships. Some of the sections included are:

  • Your Primary Gifts & Primary Shadow Patterns and a special video Transmission

  • Your Relationship Qualities & Shadow Qualities and their Relationship Qualities Mind Maps

  • Your 2 Life's Themes & whether you are more Internally or Externally Referenced and how that motivates you

  • Your Communication & Decision Making Profiles that dive deeply into any pitfalls you might get caught in

  • Your Erotic & Energetic Profiles to see how you impact the space, how you express or repress emotions and what kind of lover you are (note: only displayed if you selected to profile with a romantic partner)

  • Your 2 Toxic Cycles & Primary Triggers that you might commonly get caught in

  • Your 2 Primary Needs & 2 Biggest Doubts & Fears that you tend to have that create sensitivities

  • Your 2 Conflict Styles that show you where you tend to go first when you are challenged

  • Your 4 Tendencies & 4 Sensitivities that indicate what you admire most in others and also what you tolerate least


    PLUS....(Course ONLY)

  • 6 Relationship Skills to develop & the likely Relationship History you have that might be impacting you currently

  • Remedies for your Communication & Decision Making Shadows you can implement for the shadow patterns you get caught in

  • Remedies for your Erotic & Energetic Shadows to help you regulate and handle overwhelm and show up as a better lover

  • Remedies for your Toxic Cycles & Primary Triggers to help you have an exit ramp out of those cycles

  • Remedies for your Primary Needs & Biggest Doubts & Fears to help you understand what's at the root

  • Your Resolution Strategy tailored for you through our 5-Part Process so you can de-escalate & resolve things

  • Your 10 Part Owners Manual for How to Best Partner With You that you can share with others to help them know how to have you feeling most loved, the keys to how to soothe you when you are triggered, and more!

  • Your 50 Chapter Personalized Audiobook that you can listen to on the go to take in your entire personalized profile.

2. Is this a personality typing quiz?

No. The results you receive are not intended to be used as a ‘Typing’ system. Many typing systems describe our identity in a fixed and one-dimensional way. It may be tempting to think of the results in this report as meaning something about you that is unchangeable. It’s important to understand that no one is made of stone and this is not the kind of profile that will tell you that you are and will always be a particular ‘type’. Your results can and likely will vary if you re-take the Relationship Dynamics quiz at different times and with different relationships in mind. This Profile is meant to give you a window into how you are predominantly showing up in your relationships right now. It is a current snapshot of the most prevalent relational dynamics that are present in the relationship you had in mind and can be taken either with a romantic partner, business colleague, family member, or friend in mind.

3. Do I need to take this quiz with my romantic partner?

No. You have the option of taking the Relationship Dynamics Quiz with or without your partner. We do however encourage you to have a particular kind of relationship in mind (i.e. romantic partner, business colleague, family member, or friend) as you are answering the questions so that your profile gives you the most accurate information about how you tend to show up in that relationship.

4. I’m single right now, will this Relationship Profile still be valuable for me?

Yes. It’s always incredibly valuable to understand yourself and others more deeply and filling out this quiz and receiving your profile when you are single is a great way for you to reflect on your past relationships and to look at the unique gifts you bring to others and the typical shadow patterns you might get caught in. This profile will help translate some of this knowledge into action as you uncover some of the remedies and relationship skills that you might want to develop. Although we recommend having a specific type of relationship in mind so that the profile accurately reflects how you tend to show up, you are welcome to reflect on your prior relationships and will gain a lot of insights that explain critically important dimensions of your particular relationship archetype.

5. Is this profile relevant for me if I'm wanting to profile me and my family members, business colleagues or friends (versus a romantic partner)?

Absolutely. The summary and profile you will receive will give you a wealth of information about ANY type of relationship as this profile focuses on the dynamics that are happening between you and any person that you want to profile. Feel free to take this keeping anyone in mind. It will be MOST accurate if you take this profile with a SPECIFIC person in mind so that you are answering the questions in the context if what actually happens between you and that other person and what you believe their impressions are of you....AND, if you decide to take it solo, you'll enjoy a profile that will still give you all the same insights but will be speaking more generally about how you show up with everyone...versus a specific person.

6. How long does it take to fill out the Relationship Dynamics Quiz?

It usually takes 15-20minutes to complete a 22 question test.  It starts with a couple multiple choice questions that will ask you to determine whether you would like to take the quiz by yourself or whether you’d like to take it with someone else in mind and profile the relationship dynamics between you and either a romantic partner, business colleague, family member, or friend. We highly recommend you have someone in mind as the results will be more accurate if you are thinking of a specific relationship and answering from what is really happening between you and that person.

Then there are 6 rank order questions that will ask you about your gifts and strengths and 7 rank order questions that will ask you questions about the your challenges and triggers. Each of these questions has 8 possible responses from which you will be selecting your top 3 from that list and also the response you would rank last. 

It ends with asking you for some contact information we can use to send you your results.

7. What happens after I take the quiz? What do I get? How do I access my profile?

We will calculate your results and give you access to a FREE SUMMARY version of your profile where we've unlocked 4 of the 20+ sections of your profile including your:

  • Relationship Stance & Results Table of Your Gifts*

  • Primary Gift & Qualities Section*

  • Shadow Stance & Results Table of your Shadow Patterns*

  • Primary Shadow Patterns & Qualities Section*

  • Primary Toxic Cycle Section*

We'll send to your inbox a link that will give you access to your FREE SUMMARY plus that summary will contain a link that will allow you to share your results with the person you profiled or anyone else you might enjoy sharing your results with.

In addition, you'll have the option to upgrade either to your Profile that contains more of the sections unlocked or to your FULL PROFILE + Companion Course which contains all sections unlocked along with an analysis of your results and a step by step 23 lesson course with videos, a 60+chapter personalized audiobook, remedies, skills, practices, and detailed explanations of the critical dimensions of your relationship that will walk you through your results and help you put what you learned into practice.

*The Free summary has these 5 sections partially unlocked. To acccess your full profile and course and the remaining content in these sections just click the UPGRADE TO UNLOCK button

8. Is the Relationship Dynamics Profile free? Is there a catch?

Yes. There is a Free Summary Profile that you will get as soon as you complete the quiz that is 100% Free and there is no credit card required or obligation to purchase anything when you receive these results. You will see 4 of 23 sections partially unlocked so that you can check out your Relationship Stance, your primary gifts and qualities, your Shadow Stance, and primary shadow patterns, and the primary toxic cycle you are most likely to get caught in most.

If you'd like to go deeper and unlock more of the content from your profile you'll have an opportunity to receive a 60+ page downloadable PDF and access the Companion Course called Mastering Your Relationship Dynamics which is a 23 Lesson step by step guide to help you understand your results with customized analysis and a personalized 60+ chapter audiobook and sections that will explain some of the remedies, practices, and skills that will help you understand your results and will help put this understanding into action in better understanding yourself and others and specific things you can do to address the challenges that might be coming up between you.

9. What’s included in the Companion Course that's not already in the Upgraded Profile?

If you choose to the Upgraded Profile + Companion Course you'll unlock In-depth analysis, practices & tools and remedies for some of the patterns and toxic cycles you get caught in most. It's not just information. You'll get 21 Relationship Practices. The course is designed to help you begin to learn relationship skills, remedies to help you unwind the patterns you might get caught in most, and practices that will help you be an even better partner, colleague, family member, or friend.

  • Fully Unlocked Communication Profile that also includes how to remedy the communication patterns you get caught in

  • Fully Unlocked Decision Making Profile that includes ways to improve how you collaborate and address

  • Fully Unlocked Erotic Profile that includes how to better romance and improve how you show up in the bedroom

  • Fully Unlocked Toxic Cycle Section that includes not just what you get caught in but what you can do about it to exit that cycle.

  • Resolution Strategy Section Lesson that teaches our unique Conflict Resolution Process: The 5 R's of Resolution and a detailed table where you explore your unique natural skills and skills to learn in each of the 5 stations of resolution

  • Relationship Skills Section that given you 6 relationship skills to begin to unlock....3 that we believe may come more naturally to you if you focus on them and 3 relationship skills that might be at your growth edge

  • A 10 Section Owners Manual for How To Partner With You. Haven't you always wished there was a sophisticated and detailed description of how to live you best, how to sooth you when you are triggered, how to romance and communicate with you when things are great and when things are challenging? This section is jam packed

  • 22 Explainer Videos that walk you through the course lesson on each page providing a few insights about what you can learn from understanding yourself even more

  • A 60+ Chapter personalized audio book that you can listen to as a playlist with detailed explanations and analysis of your specific results.

  • 20+ Relationship Dynamics Practices, Exercises, Practices and Tools you can develop to put all this information into use in the relationships that matter most

  • Discounts on Future Courses that we'll send throughout the year to get you hundreds off of the various online courses, masterclasses, workshops, and retreats we offer that MORE than pay for this course.

10. Can I retake this quiz for free and get another profile?

Yes. You can take this quiz as many times as you like. You can profile different relationships or even profile the same relationship at different times and get an in-depth analysis of your current relationship dynamics. You can do as many free summaries as you like.

If you also want the FULL profile and course on that person versus just the 4 summaries you'll need to purchase an additional upgrade that upgrade but there are often discounted.

It’s important to understand that no one is made of stone and even if we do tend to have some patterns and behaviors that are consistent in all our relationships, over time as we develop, so do the relationship dynamics. The results you receive are not intended to be used as a ‘Typing’ system. Many typing systems describe our identity in a fixed and one dimensional way. It may be tempting to think of the results in this report as meaning something about you that is unchangeable, but that simply is not true. The summary reports will always be free but you will need to purchase the upgrade to receive the full individualized profiles for additional relationships..

11. Will my results be different if I take the quiz with a different person in mind?

The results you receive are not intended to be used as a ‘Typing’ system. Many typing systems describe our identity in a more fixed and one dimensional way. It may be tempting to think of the results in this report as meaning something about you that is unchangeable. Your results can be different if you re-take the Relationship Archetype quiz at different times and with different types or relationships in mind. It’s important to understand that no one is made of stone and this is not the kind of personality test that will tell you that you are and will always be a particular ‘type’. This Profile is meant to give you a window into how you are predominantly showing up in your relationships right now. It is a current snapshot of the most prevalent relational dynamics that are present in the relationship you had in mind and can be taken either with a romantic partner, business colleague, family member, or friend in mind.

12. Can I share my profile with others? Who can see my profile?

Yes! We highly encourage it. There is a ‘SHARE MY PROFILE’ button at the top of your Free Summary which will give you a special shareable link that you are welcome to send to others. In addition, if you purchased a full profile, you will receive an email in your inbox with a downloadable and shareable PDF you are welcome to send to your loved ones, business colleagues, family members, or friends. Please use the share button instead of copy pasting the URL, as this special link will allow them to see your results rather than showing a blank summary.

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