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THE RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS QUIZ

Which of the 64 Relationship Stances are you bringing to your relationships?

Take our Quiz to uncover the keys to understanding your relationship stance, your greatest gifts, and your life's themes. Plus you'll see which shadow pattern you tend to get caught in most. Take this 20-question quiz and get instant access to your Free Summary Profile.

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Take it together or alone (or multiple times)

Take it on your own to learn more about yourself  OR take it with a romantic partner, business colleague, family member, or friend to understand the relationship dynamics going on between you. You can retake this quiz anytime with the people you interact with most.

Discover your unique gifts & patterns

Gain personalized insights about your strengths and gifts while uncovering which of the 8 toxic cycles you get caught in most to help you understand yourself and the people you interact with most. Access a 50+ page profile and a 24 Lesson Step by Step Guide.

Learn skills to improve your relationship

Gain practical relationship skills for building stronger, healthier, and more fulfilling relationships. This  Relationship Dynamics Profile analyzes 24 key areas, 8 relational gifts and 8 shadow patterns  to help you learn how to be a better partner. Unlock your profile to get remedies and skills to help you.

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ACCESS THE MOST COMPREHENSIVE RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS PROFILE AVAILABLE

Take this Quiz and you'll get your FREE Relationship Dynamics Report and, learn more about how to unlock your full Profile (60+ pages) which includes a step by step 24-lesson course to help you learn about yourself, your loved ones and build the skills to create stronger, healthier, more lasting love.

WHO SHOULD TAKE THIS QUIZ?

ANYONE CAN TAKE THIS QUIZ AND IT'S MOST ACCURATE WHEN YOU FOCUS ON A PARTICULAR RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU'D LIKE TO PROFILE...

Romantic Partners

Business Colleagues

Family Members

Friends

WHAT YOU'LL DISCOVER WHEN YOU UNLOCK YOUR PROFILE

A Comprehensive Owner's Manual For Understanding Yourself & Others

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WHICH OF THE 64 RELATIONSHIP STANCES ARE YOU? WHICH OF THE 8 GIFTS IS YOUR GREATEST STRENGTH?

Learn how your greatest relationship gifts positively impact the people you interact with and which of the 64 stances you tend to use most in your relationship. Feel caught in a loop having the same argument again and again? Are you wanting to find an exit strategy out of those patterns? This profile will tell you what you might be doing to predictable polarize others and also how you might be inspiring the people around you too.

There is a companion online course that comes along with your profile that provides a step-by step guide that can help point the way to healing that toxic cycle permanently.

DISCOVER YOUR SPECIFIC GIFTS, SHADOWS, & STANCE

Learn how your gift of positively impacts your most important relationships and how to communicate effectively with people who might not share your gift. Feel caught in a loop of ? This step-by step guide points the way to healing that toxic cycle permanently.

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HOW CAN YOU IMPROVE THE WAY YOU COMMUNICATE & DECISION MAKE GIVEN YOUR UNIQUE STYLE AND THEIRS?

Discover which of the 4 different qualities 8 different styles make up your communication profile and get a detailed decision making profile to explore how your natural tendencies likely make some situations easy for you to navigate while others you might find more challenging.

Once you’ve learned your communication style, you can watch out for the common pitfalls and shadows that crop up for you and how to use your unique gifts to make sure communication and decision making with you is always clear, impactful, and effective.

EVOLVE THE WAY YOU COMMUNICATE & COLLABORATE

Learn about explicit, implicit, reactive, and repressive communication styles and how your natural tendencies make some situations easy for you to navigate and others more challenging. Once you’ve learned your communication style, you can watch out for the common pitfalls and use your unique gifts to make sure communication with you is always clear, impactful, and effective.

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WHAT ARE YOUR UNCONSCIOUS PATTERNS? HOW DO YOU HANDLE STRESS?

How do you handle stress in your relationships? Learn which of the 8 ways people are conditioned to handle stress and how it shows up in your posture, gestures, arguments and emotions. Learn what you do to compensate and protect yourself physically and emotionally when this happens and how others tend to perceive you when you do.

Learn how you can regulate your nervous system, release stress, and restore yourself to a more resourced state so you can show up for your partner as your best self.

LEARN YOUR UNCONSCIOUS ENERGY PATTERNS

How do you handle stress in your relationships? Learn which of the 8 distinct ways we tend to become conditioned to handle these stresses and how they show up in your posture, gestures, patterns of tension, and which emotions tend to get repressed or expressed. Learn how you can regulate your nervous system, release stress, and restore yourself to a more resourced state.

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WHAT CONFLICT PATTERNS ARE YOU GETTING CAUGHT IN? WHAT RESOLUTION STRATEGIES & SKILLS CAN HELP YOU NAVIGATE THAT BETTER?

Most conflicts never get resolved. The period of tension and upset may pass and apologies may be offered and even accepted, but unless the conflict is fully resolved, resentment often lives on. This profile will look at your top 2 goto strategies that you use when you are upset and in conflict.

We'll also look at how you tend to help resolve situations between yourself and others as we look at what comes naturally to you and also what might be a growth edge for you. If you upgrade to the course, you'll discover the 5 essential phases of conflict resolution and how your current conflict strategies might be polarizing your interactions in predictable ways. Get the key to developing the missing phases to permanently resolve your conflicts.

MAP YOUR CONFLICT AND RESOLUTION STYLES

Most conflicts never get resolve - the period of tension and upset may pass and apologies may be offered and even accepted, but unless the conflict is fully resolved, a pocket of resentment often lives on. We’ve identified 5 important stages of any successful conflict resolution process for it to fully resolve. Learn how your current conflict strategies might be polarizing your interactions in predictable ways and which of these stages you might develop to more permanently resolve your conflicts.

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HOW CAN YOU BRING MORE ROMANCE & KEEP THE SPARK ALIVE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

You can take this with a family member, business colleague, or friend too but if you choose to profile a romantic partner (current or former), you'll unlock 6 qualities that are part of identifying your particular romantic profile.

Learn more about what kind of attraction strategies you tend to use and what natural skills you bring to your romantic relationships and also any shadow patterns that you might get caught in that could be causing you to either lose the spark or create unwanted friction for you and your partner. Learn the strengths and blindspots of your style to create more passion and attraction with your partner.

LEARN WHAT KIND OF LOVER YOU ARE

Learn more about what kind of attraction strategies you tend to use and what natural skills you bring to your romantic relationships and also any shadow patterns that you might get caught in that could be causing you to either lose the spark or create unwanted friction for you and your partner.

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HOW CAN YOU PUT WHAT YOU ARE LEARNING INTO PRACTICE DAY TO DAY? GET 20+ LESSONS, PRACTICES & EXERCISES

If you decide to upgrade to receive our profile and the companion tsep by step course you’ll receive the most comprehensive relationship profile we've ever seen along. with the 24 lesson Mastering Your Relationship Dynamics Course that will help guide you step by step into understanding yourself and and whoever you profiled turning that knowledge into practice. Learn what will work best for your specific relationship.

24 LESSONS + 21 RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS PRACTICES

You’ll receive one of the most COMPREHENSIVE profiles ever created of the dynamics that are most active in your relationships right now. It’s been custom built for you, with detailed commentary on each section of your profile. Make 2024 your best relationship year yet! Not all are created equal. Learn what will work best for your specific relationship.

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YOU'll ALSO LEARN DOZENS OF OTHER TENDENCIES AND SENSITIVITIES THAT SHAPE THE WAY YOU RELATE

Your upgraded profile includes a 24 Lesson course that will walk you through understanding your full profile step by step. Gain a deeper understanding of the relationship gifts you bring to your partner, to your decision-making and even your parenting along with identifying, your primary needs and even your biggest doubts and fears. You can't change what you don't understand.

AND DOZENS OF OTHER STYLES, TENDENCIES, AND SENSITIVITIES THAT SHAPE THE WAY YOU LOVE

Your upgraded profile includes a 24 Lesson course that will walk you through understanding your profile step by step. Gain a deeper understanding of the relationship gifts you bring to your partner, to your decision making and even to your parenting along with identifying, your primary, needs, the themes you tend to explore, and even your biggest doubts and fears.

ABOUT THE CREATORS OF THE RELATIONSHIP DYNAMIC PROFILE

JENNIFER RUSSELL & BRYAN FRANKLIN

CO-FOUNDERS, RELATIONSHIP DYNAMIC INSTITUTE

Jennifer Russell & Bryan Franklin Co-Founders Relationship Dynamics Institute
Jennifer Russell & Bryan Franklin Co-Founders Relationship Dynamics Institute

Over 30,000 paid coaching sessions and transformational programs over the last 20 years

Together Jennifer Russell and Bryan Franklin have done over 30,000 paid coaching sessions and have led 20+ years of impactful transformational courses, retreats, and programs  incorporating  the best of Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP), the human potential movement, family systems, attachment theory, parts work, collaborative systems, evolutionary psychology, spiral dynamics, spiritual practices, and sacred theater. They’ve analyzed thousands of relationship fights and have developed a comprehensive Relationship Dynamics Profile and a unique Perfect Vision Conflict Resolution process that’s famous for rewriting relational patterns and permanently resolving conflicts.

Take this FREE Quiz to find out your #1 Relationship Stance, your greatest Gifts, your primary Shadow pattern and which Toxic Cycle you get caught in most.

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Access To The Community: Discussions & Support

Your Relationship Stance: Which of the 64 are you?

Your Shadow Stance: Which of the 64 do you get caught in?

Your Results Summary: Get your Scores in 18 Categories

Explore The Primary Relationship Gift You Bring

Find Out Your Top Relationship Qualities & Strengths

See Your Shadow Qualities & The History Behind Them

Get Our Guide To How To Understand Your Results

The Ring Of Resolution: What are we fighting about?

Learn Which Shadow Patterns You Get Caught In

Explore Your Primary & Secondary Life’s Themes

Discover Whether Your Reference Is Internal vs Exteral

Learn Your 4 Tendencies: Your Values & What You Admire

Your 4 Sensitivities: What Side You Taken In Conflict

Explore Your Primary & Secondary Needs

Uncover Your Primary & Secondary Doubts & Fears

Explore Your Primary & Secondary Triggers

Discover Your Energetic Profile: It’s Gifts & Shadows

Analysis Of Your Communication Profile Gifts & Shadows

Analysis Of Your Decision Making & How You Collaborate

Discover Your Primary & Secondary Toxic Cycle Remedies

Learn How To Develop Better Communication

Understand Ways To Improve Your Decision Making

Understand How To Remedy Your Toxic Cycles

Discover Your Unique Resolution Strategy to End Conflict

Get A Set of 6 Personalized Relationship Skills To Develop

A 10-Chapter Owner’s Manual: How To Partner With You

24 Explainer Videos To Help You Understand Your Profile

A 60+ Chapter Personalized Audiobook: Listen On The Go

23 Practices & Practical Tools To UpgradeYour Relating

Special Discounts That MORE Than Pay For The Upgrade

Permanent Relationship Breakthrough Course

8xLive Interactive Calls with Bryan & Jennifer

Learn How to Permanent Resolve Your Conflicts

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ACCESS THE COMMUNITY & GET SUPPORTED

In The Relationship Dynamics Community

Get (and give) support with a vibrant network of people who are committed to have extraordinary relationships

  • Learn more about yourself and your partner by connecting with others with similar gifts & shadows

  • Get support and new perspectives on a challenge or sticking point

  • Connect with the kinds of people you’d most want to share a transformational journey

YOUR RELATIONSHIP STANCE: WHICH OF THE 64 ARE YOU?

We often call the patterned ways we respond that can be repeated enough that they form aspects of our personality a ‘Relationship Stance’. These stances describe how the body, beliefs & our behaviors adapt to what’s around us.

There are 8 primary relational gifts that combine to form these 64 stances (The Visionary, The Zen Master, The Guardian, The Empath, The Free Spirit, The Devotee, The Provocateur, & The Collaborator)

The 64 Relationship Stances

YOUR SHADOW STANCE: WHICH DO YOU GET CAUGHT IN MOST?

We often call the patterned ways we respond that can be repeated enough that they form aspects of our personality a ‘Relationship Stance’. These stances describe how the body, beliefs & our behaviors adapt to what’s around us.

There are 8 primary relational shadows that combine to form these 64 shadow stances (The Tyrant, The Denier, The Prosecutor, The Pleaser, The Narcissist, The Beggar, The Addict, The Martyr)

The 64 Shadow Stances

RESULTS SUMMARY: YOUR TOP RANKINGS, CHARTS & SCORES

In The Profile (PDF) & Companion Course...

Your Results summary will show you your rankings and scores in over 18 different categories including:

  • Rankings of Your 8 Relationship Gifts & 8 Shadows

  • Your Scores For The 8 Communication & Decision Making Qualities, 6 Romantic Qualities & Your Energetic Profile

  • Your Scores For The 4 Tendencies and 4 Sensitivities

  • Your 2 Life Themes & Your Internal vs External Reference

  • Your Primary & Secondary Toxic Cycle & Their Remedies* &

    What your Conflict & Resolution Strategies* are

  • Which 2 Primary Needs, Triggers, Biggest Fears & Doubts

YOUR SHADOW QUALITIES: REWRITING YOUR PRIMARY PATTERNS

In The Profile (PDF) & Companion Course...

There is an opportunity to embrace your darker side and illuminate what might be responsible for repeating some undesirable patterns.

  • Uncover both primary and secondary shadow qualities that might emerge when you feel threatened or disconnected

  • Learn to identify the signs that you are slipping into your shadow patterns and the childhood history at play that tends to form this pattern

  • Gain insights on how these shadows influence your reactions and how others perceive you during challenging times.Use this newfound knowledge to navigate challenges, improve self-awareness, and enhance the quality of your connections with others

PRIMARY GIFTS: WHICH OF THE 8 ARE YOUR GREATEST STRENGTH

In The Profile (PDF) & Companion Course...

Learn about your primary relationship gifts and strengths that are vital to creating a healthy long lasting relationship.

  • Learn about the core essence of this gift and how this gift relates to the deepest impulses, desires, & values you hold

  • Recognize what’s easy for you that might be harder for others, which can show you what others find is special about being in a relationship with you

  • In addition, access your secondary gift and a mind map of it’s qualities so you can see how these two blend together to form a fuller picture of what people tend to love and admire most about you

THE PRIMARY & SECONDARY RELATIONSHIP QUALITIES YOU BRING

In The Profile (PDF) & Companion Course...

See a mind map of both your primary and secondary qualities that are also likely strengths you bring to your relationship.

  • Learn how you are positively impacting the people you interact with and what they tend to see in you

  • Uncover the primary and secondary qualities that might emerge when you are safe, secure and the most yourself

  • If you take this profile with someone else, have them share theirs with you so you can see which

INTRODUCTIONS & LEARN HOW TO READ YOUR RESULTS

The results you receive are not intended to be used as a ‘Typing’ system. Many typing systems describe our identity in a more fixed and one dimensional way. It may be tempting to think of the results in this report as meaning something about you that is unchangeable. We believe that the best way to enter into an evolutionary relationship is to realize that our identities and the strategies and stances we most often take are actually much more moldable, flexible and able to evolve than they may appear. This profile is meant to give you a window into how you are predominantly showing up in your relationships right now. It is a current snapshot of the most prevalent relational dynamics that are present.

Our goal in creating this body of work is to raise our collective ‘Relational Quotient’ (RQ) so that we are all more able to create and maintain conscious healthy relationships ongoingly.

RELATIONAL QUOTIENT (RQ)

The measure of the consciousness and health of a relationship, and a person’s ability to create and maintain health in their relationships.

RING OF RESOLUTION: WHAT ARE WE REALLY FIGHTING ABOUT?

It’s common knowledge that the source of conflict in love relationships is rarely the “surface issue,” but what are we really fighting about?

After studying thousands of relationships we discovered that, at the deepest level, there are actually a finite number of fights we are having. Even though we are each complex and unique, the underlying dynamics that are keeping us at odds with each other can be categorized into one of only 8 unique conflicts.

We call these conflicts Toxic Cycles because when each person’s behavior is caught up in one of these cycles, they tend to polarize one another into a predictable and directly oppositional position, unwittingly inviting others to continue the cycle rather than resolve it. Just like positively and negatively charged magnets, the presence of a strong charge on one side will attract and amplify a strong charge on the opposite side. Discover the 8 conflicts that are at the root of nearly all relational conflict.

LEARN WHICH OF THE 8 SHADOW PATTERNS YOU GET CAUGHT IN

Warning Label: This information will point at your

shadow.

In the shadow patterns section there is an opportunity to embrace your darker side and illuminate what you might want to work on. While there’s a lot of great news in this report that your ego will enjoy, this profile would be less useful without some of the shadow elements that are at the root of what might be creating conflict and strife in your relationships.

We believe it is a deeply worthwhile process to uncover these shadow patterns and see them with clear, honest, and understanding eyes.


EXPLORE YOUR LIFE’S THEMES THAT BRING YOU PURPOSE & FOCUS

In The Profile (PDF) & Companion Course...

You will explore several major life themes that are often areas of purpose and focus.

  • Dive deep into the most prevalent themes that shape and drive your life. What do they reveal about your purpose, passions, and motivations

  • Recognize the overarching narratives of your life, providing clarity and direction as you navigate the complexities of personal connections.

  • Learn how to harness these themes to not just inspire yourself but uplift and empower those around you, shaping the impact you have on those around you.

ARE YOU INTERNALLY OR EXTERNALLY REFERENCED?

In The Profile (PDF) & Companion Course...

You will discover the unique power of having an External or Internal

Reference and empower yourself with new ways to broaden your experience and appreciate differences in how we experience ourselves and our relationships.

  • Learn about your deepest motivations and desires

  • Understand where you draw your sense of identity and validation

  • Uncover how your frame of reference defines your interactions, reactions, and relationships

  • Understand your areas of growth based on this unique relationship lens

YOUR 4 TENDENCIES: YOUR HIGHEST VALUES & WHAT YOU ADMIRE

In The Profile (PDF) & Companion Course...

Delve into your relational tendencies and the unique ways that you approach relationships

  • Discover how you polarize towards certain values in relationships and how that impacts your perception of what is "right" and "good" in your interactions

  • See the patterns in the qualities you most admire in others and might want to cultivate in yourself. Recognize these attributes and appreciate the balance they can bring in healthy relationships

  • Understand the opposing polarities within your relationship tendencies to appreciate the diversity of human connection and expand your relational toolkit

YOUR 4 SENSITIVITIES: WHAT SIDE YOU TEND TO TAKE IN CONFLICT

In The Profile (PDF) & Companion Course...

Ever felt like your reactions in conflicts are on repeat? Discover the predictable patterns that emerge from your sensitivities, and gain insights into how to break free from these cycles.

  • Learn more about your 4 Sensitivities: The areas that might trigger or irritate and create predictable patterns in your relationships

  • Trust, boundaries, and intimacy: Explore the core values and beliefs that drive your relationship dynamics. Learn to distinguish between genuine boundaries and tests

  • Embracing all sides of the coin: Learn how emphasizing one value can influence and polarize those around you, and how embracing a balanced perspective can lead to richer, more fulfilling relationships

LEARN ABOUT YOUR 2 PRIMARY NEEDS & WHAT REGULATES YOU

In The Profile (PDF) & Companion Course...

Learn about your primary relationship gifts and explore the qualities you tend to bring most that are vital to creating a relationship healthy, strong, & vibrant.

  • Learn about the core essence of this gift when its expressed fully & purely and how they relate to the deepest impulses, desires, & values you hold

  • Recognize what might be easy for you but might be harder for others, which can show you how it might feel special to be in a relationship with you

  • In addition you’ll access your secondary gift and a mind map of it’s qualities so you can see how these two blend together to form a fuller picture of what people tend to love and admire most about you.

ADDRESS YOUR TOP 2 BIGGEST DOUBTS & FEARS

In The Profile (PDF) & Companion Course...

Address your biggest doubts and fears. It can be incredibly soothing just to have your doubts and fears acknowledged. In this section we'll go beyond that and show you the positive intention behind these doubts and fears and explore ways you can befriend or even transcend them

  • Unveil the core doubts and fears that may unconsciously drive many of your behaviors and decisions in relationships

  • Explore the protective mechanisms you've crafted over time and see how they serve or hinder your connection with others

  • Discover how specific patterns can both protect & isolate you

  • Recognize the impact of these patterns on others and gain insights on how to channel them constructively

LEARN ABOUT THE TOP 2 THINGS THAT TRIGGER YOU MOST

In The Profile (PDF) & Companion Course...

Dive deep into understanding what sets you off. By recognizing your primary and secondary triggers, you'll be better equipped to navigate those challenging moments in your relationships.

  • Identify the specific scenarios or responses from others that can push your buttons and learn why

  • Understand how your unique stance in relationships shapes your reactions to certain situations and behaviors

  • Gain insights into the deeper desires and needs you seek when triggered, allowing you to address issues more constructively

MASTERING YOUR UNIQUE ENERGETIC PROFILE & ITS SHADOWS

In The Profile (PDF) & Companion Course...

We'll dive into the layers of your energetic profile and through understanding them, you can make the unconscious impact you have more conscious.

  • Unveil the magic of how you influence whats around around you even without words

  • Discover your energetic power: Find out how you naturally move and shift energies within and around you. Learn to channel this power consciously, captivating and inspiring those around you

  • Shadow side of energy: Explore the triggers that divert your energy flow into patterns that might not serve your best interests

LEARN ABOUT THE 4 ASPECTS OF YOUR COMMUNICATION PROFILE

In The Profile (PDF) & Companion Course...

Discover the dynamics that arise from your communication style.

  • Learn about explicit, implicit, reactive, and repressive

    communication styles and how your natural tendencies make some situations easy for you to navigate and others more challenging

  • Reveal how your natural communication strengths shape conversations and drive deeper connections

  • In the shadow section you’ll explore the common pitfalls you may find yourself in and how your communication style is experienced by others

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the Course to unlock full profile with analysis, remedies & practices.

LEARN HOW YOU DECISION MAKE & COLLABORATE

In The Profile (PDF) & Companion Course...

Examine the ways you approach decisions and collaborations

  • Explore the nuances of your unique style and how it shapes your day-to-day choices

  • Discover your personalized decision-making style and learn if you're more intuitive or considered, directive or collaborative

  • Explore your decisions and the interplay between your primary and secondary decision-making strengths & shadows

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the Course to unlock full profile with analysis, remedies & practices.

LEARN THE 2 TOXIC CYLES YOU DO & WHICH SIDE YOU OFTEN TAKE

In The Profile (PDF) & Companion Course...

Even the healthiest relationships can have toxic cycles. You’ll learn what a toxic cycle is and discover which 2 you tend to get caught in most.

  • Learn about toxic cycles and how your natural response might be predictably polarizing your partner into perpetuating them

  • Uncover the root causes of repetitive, unhealthy patterns in relationships, and discover how these patterns can cause disconnection

  • Recognize your tendencies within these toxic cycles and understand how your actions and reactions can unintentionally perpetuate them

NOTE: PDF profile only contains gift & shadow sections. Upgrade to

the Course to unlock full profile with analysis, remedies & practices.

LEARN SEVERAL TOOLS TO IMPROVE YOUR COMMUNICATION

In The Companion Course Only...

Includes a personalized analysis of the primary & secondary remedies to use to make sure your communication is always clear, impactful & effective

  • Learn how you can help shape conversations and drive deeper connections

  • Discover how embracing the value being held by others on the opposite side of your polarity can create better communication

  • Practice and get feedback from someone you trust about how your communication is impacting them as you incorporate what you learn

NOTE: PDF profile only contains gift & shadow sections. Upgrade to

the Course to unlock full profile with analysis, remedies & practices.

DISCOVER YOUR TOP 2 WAYS TO GET BETTER AT COLLABORATING

In The Companion Course Only...

Discover a personalized analysis of your primary and secondary decision making style to help shift the dynamics

  • Learn to navigate challenges and capitalize on your inherent strengths with these personalized remedies

  • Recognize areas of growth in your decision-making process that they truly resonate with your innermost desires and values.

  • Fine-tune your approach with actionable remedies tailored to you specifically

NOTE: PDF profile only contains gift & shadow sections. Upgrade to

the Course to unlock full profile with analysis, remedies & practices.

HOW TO REMEDY AND EXIT THE TOXIC CYCLES YOU ARE CAUGHT IN

In The Companion Course Only...

We’ve identified 8 relationship values that are central to remedying nearly all relationship conflicts and you’ll get personalized analysis of the primary and secondary remedies we recommend you bring to exit these cycles:

  • Learn effective strategies to break free from these cycles as you discover the fastest path to remedying them.

  • Identify what behaviors you can do to have your partner begin to instantly shift the dynamic and start to understand your perspective

  • Transform them into healthier interactions, fostering a deeper understanding and stronger bond in your relationships.

NOTE: PDF profile only contains gift & shadow sections. Upgrade to

the Course to unlock full profile with analysis, remedies & practices.

UNCOVER 5 PERSONALIZED STRATEGIES TO RESOLVE CONFLICT

In The Companion Course Only...

You’ll be equip you with essential knowledge to help you understand how to permanently resolve your conflicts through the 5 R’s of Resolution.

  • Unlock the 5 Stages of Conflict Resolution and experience a transformation in how you perceive and approach conflicts.

  • Master personalized resolution strategies. Immerse yourself in tailor-made strategies that cater specifically to your unique relationship stance.

  • Forge path to genuine forgiveness and complete resolution allowing for healing and the re-establishment of trust.

NOTE: PDF profile only contains gift & shadow sections. Upgrade to

the Course to unlock full profile with analysis, remedies & practices.

DISCOVER THE 6 MOST RELEVANT RELATIONSHIP SKILLS TO LEARN

In The Companion Course Only...

You will learn 6 of the most relevant Relationship Skills which will help you enhance the quality and depth of your relationships.

  • Unlocking past patterns: Step back in time to decode the dynamics that may have shaped your relational journey

  • Enhance your toolbox: Learn which relationship skills perfectly complement your unique relationship stance.

  • See your areas of growth and discover 3 potent skills that are the ones that you may specifically need to upgrade your relationships.

NOTE: PDF profile does not contain this section. Upgrade to the Course to unlock full analysis, remedies & practices.

PERSONALIZED OWNERS MANUAL FOR HOW TO PARTNER WITH YOU

In The Companion Course Only...

Ever wanted an owner’s manual that you could give others that could re-code exactly how to relate to you. If you upgrade to the course, you’ll have just that.

  • Let others know how to love you most, how best to communicate and collaborate with you

  • Give them personalized strategies to soothe you when you are triggered and to know what you need most when things are challenging

  • Help them appreciate your greatest gifts and what you bring that has them admire you most

NOTE: PDF profile does not contain the Owners Manual on How To Partner. Upgrade to the Course to unlock it.

PERSONALIZED OWNERS MANUAL FOR HOW TO PARTNER WITH YOU

In The Companion Course Only...

For those with the course you can access 24 explainer videos to walk you step by step through your profile.

  • Each lesson begins with a video that helps you understand more about this profile and the various lessons we’ve included

  • These videos will help explain how the course works and how to get the most out of participating with it

  • For the visual and auditory learners this is a great way to get introduced to each lesson

NOTE: PDF profile does not contain videos. Upgrade to the Course to unlock the ability to watch all the

video content.

GET A PERSONALIZED 60 CHAPTER AUDIO BOOK

In The Companion Course Only...

When you upgrade to the course, we’ve included a personalized 60+ chapter audiobook of your complete profile when you upgrade to the course.

  • Listen to a unique audiobook of your profile tailored to your results

  • You can increase the playback speed, download the audios, and listen on the go

  • Learn all about yourself and the person you’ve profiled and let them listen to the 10-section OWNERS MANUAL: How To Partner With You, anytime you like!

NOTE: PDF profile does not contain any audios or this personalized audiobook. Upgrade to the Course to unlock this feature.

GET OVER 20+ PRACTICES TO PUT WHAT YOU LEARN INTO ACTION

In The Companion Course Only...

Gaining insight is a monumental first step, but real transformation emerges when you act upon it. Each lesson is paired with a unique practice designed to make a tangible impact.

While the lessons provide the theory, the Relationship Dynamics Practices are where the magic happens. As you uncover insights remember, it's those daily tweaks in your approach that truly make the difference.


They're the bridge from understanding to application. Cross it and discover a world of difference as they can become a turning point to reshape your relational world. 


NOTE: PDF profile only does not contain any remedies or practices or tools. Upgrade to the Course to unlock these 20+ practices and the full profile with personalized analysis and remedies

GET SPECIAL DISCOUNTS ON FUTURE COURSES & PRODUCTS

In The Companion Course Only...

You’ll get access to discounts on future courses and products that will more than pay for this course.

100% of what you spend on this course you’ll receive in discounts towards our Permanent Relationship Breakthrough and our next 4-Day Evolving Love Retreat.

You’ll also be the first to know about future offerings so you can get the early bird price.

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GET OUR PERMANENT RELATIONSHIP BREAKTHROUGH COURSE

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Join relationship experts Bryan Franklin and Jennifer Russell for an 8-session online event. Come join a journey of self-discovery that will help you develop 8 key skills that will transform your relationships putting it all into practice.

  • You'll learn how to rewrite one of your patterns and resolve one of your conflicts permanently with the unique 5-Step Perfect Vision Process

  • Master the art of regulation, empathy, tracking, & deescalating

  • Learn what you are already doing naturally + what you might be leaving out

NOTE: You get the FULL Profile + Mastering Your Relationship Dynamics Course + Live Online Permanent Breakthrough Course

8XLIVE INTERACTIVE SESSIONS WITH BRYAN & JENNIFER

In The Full Upgrade Only...

When you upgrade to the breakthrough course, you’ll be able to bring your most persistent conflicts and patterns to our live calls.

  • Receive personalized and comprehensive insights during our interactive calls to more fully understand yourself and those you are relating to now

  • Find out how to make sure your past conflicts don’t come back to haunt you

  • Put everything you learned from your Profile into practice so that you can be an even better partner, collaborator, family member, or friend.

NOTE: You get the FULL Profile + Mastering Your Relationship Dynamics Course + Live Online Permanent Breakthrough Course

LEARN HOW TO PERMANENTLY RESOLVE YOUR CONFLICTS

In The Full Upgrade Only...

When you upgrade to the course, we’ve included a personalized 60+ chapter audiobook of your complete profile when you upgrade to the course.

  • Diagnose what to do when you get triggered and how to communicate more effectively

  • Learn how to reinterpret your blind spots and create a new narrative for your relationship

  • Learn how to express your needs, commit to a new future, release resentment and fully forgive

NOTE: You get the FULL Profile + Mastering Your Relationship Dynamics Course + Live Online Permanent Breakthrough Course

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

1. What is the Relationship Dynamics Profile?

The Relationship Dynamics Profile is a comprehensive 24 section profile that analyzes your responses to the 20+ questions in our quiz to calculate which of the 8 primary gifts and which of the 8 primary shadow patterns you tend to bring most to your relationships. Some of the sections included are:

  • Your Primary Gifts & Primary Shadow Patterns and a special video Transmission

  • Your Relationship Qualities & Shadow Qualities and their Relationship Qualities Mind Maps

  • Your 2 Life's Themes & whether you are more Internally or Externally Referenced and how that motivates you

  • Your Communication & Decision Making Profiles that dive deeply into any pitfalls you might get caught in

  • Your Erotic & Energetic Profiles to see how you impact the space, how you express or repress emotions and what kind of lover you are (note: only displayed if you selected to profile with a romantic partner)

  • Your 2 Toxic Cycles & Primary Triggers that you might commonly get caught in

  • Your 2 Primary Needs & 2 Biggest Doubts & Fears that you tend to have that create sensitivities

  • Your 2 Conflict Styles that show you where you tend to go first when you are challenged

  • Your 4 Tendencies & 4 Sensitivities that indicate what you admire most in others and also what you tolerate least


    PLUS....(Course ONLY)

  • 6 Relationship Skills to develop & the likely Relationship History you have that might be impacting you currently

  • Remedies for your Communication & Decision Making Shadows you can implement for the shadow patterns you get caught in

  • Remedies for your Erotic & Energetic Shadows to help you regulate and handle overwhelm and show up as a better lover

  • Remedies for your Toxic Cycles & Primary Triggers to help you have an exit ramp out of those cycles

  • Remedies for your Primary Needs & Biggest Doubts & Fears to help you understand what's at the root

  • Your Resolution Strategy tailored for you through our 5-Part Process so you can de-escalate & resolve things

  • Your 10 Part Owners Manual for How to Best Partner With You that you can share with others to help them know how to have you feeling most loved, the keys to how to soothe you when you are triggered, and more!

  • Your 50 Chapter Personalized Audiobook that you can listen to on the go to take in your entire personalized profile.

2. Is this a personality typing quiz?

No. The results you receive are not intended to be used as a ‘Typing’ system. Many typing systems describe our identity in a fixed and one-dimensional way. It may be tempting to think of the results in this report as meaning something about you that is unchangeable. It’s important to understand that no one is made of stone and this is not the kind of profile that will tell you that you are and will always be a particular ‘type’. Your results can and likely will vary if you re-take the Relationship Dynamics quiz at different times and with different relationships in mind. This Profile is meant to give you a window into how you are predominantly showing up in your relationships right now. It is a current snapshot of the most prevalent relational dynamics that are present in the relationship you had in mind and can be taken either with a romantic partner, business colleague, family member, or friend in mind.

3. Do I need to take this quiz with my romantic partner?

No. You have the option of taking the Relationship Dynamics Quiz with or without your partner. We do however encourage you to have a particular kind of relationship in mind (i.e. romantic partner, business colleague, family member, or friend) as you are answering the questions so that your profile gives you the most accurate information about how you tend to show up in that relationship.

4. I’m single right now, will this Relationship Profile still be valuable for me?

Yes. It’s always incredibly valuable to understand yourself and others more deeply and filling out this quiz and receiving your profile when you are single is a great way for you to reflect on your past relationships and to look at the unique gifts you bring to others and the typical shadow patterns you might get caught in. This profile will help translate some of this knowledge into action as you uncover some of the remedies and relationship skills that you might want to develop. Although we recommend having a specific type of relationship in mind so that the profile accurately reflects how you tend to show up, you are welcome to reflect on your prior relationships and will gain a lot of insights that explain critically important dimensions of your particular relationship archetype.

5. Is this profile relevant for me if I'm wanting to profile me and my family members, business colleagues or friends (versus a romantic partner)?

Absolutely. The summary and profile you will receive will give you a wealth of information about ANY type of relationship as this profile focuses on the dynamics that are happening between you and any person that you want to profile. Feel free to take this keeping anyone in mind. It will be MOST accurate if you take this profile with a SPECIFIC person in mind so that you are answering the questions in the context if what actually happens between you and that other person and what you believe their impressions are of you....AND, if you decide to take it solo, you'll enjoy a profile that will still give you all the same insights but will be speaking more generally about how you show up with everyone...versus a specific person.

6. How long does it take to fill out the Relationship Dynamics Quiz?

It usually takes 15-20minutes to complete a 20 question test.  It starts with a couple multiple choice questions that will ask you to determine whether you would like to take the quiz by yourself or whether you’d like to take it with someone else in mind and profile the relationship dynamics between you and either a romantic partner, business colleague, family member, or friend. We highly recommend you have someone in mind as the results will be more accurate if you are thinking of a specific relationship and answering from what is really happening between you and that person.

Then there are 6 rank order questions that will ask you about your gifts and strengths and 7 rank order questions that will ask you questions about the your challenges and triggers. Each of these questions has 8 possible responses from which you will be selecting your top 3 from that list and also the response you would rank last. 

It ends with asking you for some contact information we can use to send you your results.

7. What happens after I take the quiz? What do I get? How do I access my profile?

We will calculate your results and give you access to a FREE SUMMARY version of your profile where we've unlocked 4 of the 24 sections of your profile including your:

  • Relationship Stance & Results Table of Your Gifts*

  • Primary Gift & Qualities Section*

  • Shadow Stance & Results Table of your Shadow Patterns*

  • Primary Shadow Patterns & Qualities Section*

  • Primary Toxic Cycle Section*

We'll send to your inbox a link that will give you access to your FREE SUMMARY plus that summary will contain a link that will allow you to share your results with the person you profiled or anyone else you might enjoy sharing your results with.

In addition, you'll have the option to upgrade either to your Profile that contains more of the sections unlocked or to your FULL PROFILE + Companion Course which contains all sections unlocked along with an analysis of your results and a step by step 24 lesson course with videos, a 60+chapter personalized audiobook, remedies, skills, practices, and detailed explanations of the critical dimensions of your relationship that will walk you through your results and help you put what you learned into practice.

*The Free summary has these 5 sections partially unlocked. To acccess your full profile and course and the remaining content in these sections just click the UPGRADE TO UNLOCK button

8. Is the Relationship Dynamics Profile free? Is there a catch?

Yes. There is a Free Summary Profile that you will get as soon as you complete the quiz that is 100% Free and there is no credit card required or obligation to purchase anything when you receive these results. You will see 4 of 24 sections partially unlocked so that you can check out your Relationship Stance, your primary gifts and qualities, your Shadow Stance, and primary shadow patterns, and the primary toxic cycle you are most likely to get caught in most.

If you'd like to go deeper and unlock more of the content from your profile you'll have an opportunity to receive a 60+ page downloadable PDF and access the Companion Course called Mastering Your Relationship Dynamics which is a 24 Lesson step by step guide to help you understand your results with customized analysis and a personalized 60+ chapter audiobook and sections that will explain some of the remedies, practices, and skills that will help you understand your results and will help put this understanding into action in better understanding yourself and others and specific things you can do to address the challenges that might be coming up between you.

9. What’s included in the Companion Course that's not already in the Profile?

If you choose to the Upgraded Profile + Companion Course you'll unlock In-depth analysis, practices & tools and remedies for some of the patterns and toxic cycles you get caught in most. You'll get 23 Relationship Practices to put it into practice and a personalized audiobook with your results that will walk you step by step into understanding yourself and how to apply what you learned. The course is designed to help you begin to learn relationship skills, remedies to help you unwind the patterns you might get caught in most, and practices that will help you be an even better partner, colleague, family member, or friend.

Here's what's included in the full Profile + Companion Course that is NOT in the partial profile ($47):

  • Fully Unlocked Communication Profile that also includes how to remedy the communication patterns you get caught in

  • Fully Unlocked Decision Making Profile that includes ways to improve how you collaborate and address

  • Fully Unlocked Erotic Profile that includes how to better romance and improve how you show up in the bedroom

  • Fully Unlocked Toxic Cycle Section that includes not just what you get caught in but what you can do about it to exit that cycle.

  • Resolution Strategy Section Lesson that teaches our unique Conflict Resolution Process: The 5 R's of Resolution and a detailed table where you explore your unique natural skills and skills to learn in each of the 5 stations of resolution

  • Relationship Skills Section that given you 6 relationship skills to begin to unlock....3 that we believe may come more naturally to you if you focus on them and 3 relationship skills that might be at your growth edge

  • A 10 Section Owners Manual for How To Partner With You. Haven't you always wished there was a sophisticated and detailed description of how to live you best, how to sooth you when you are triggered, how to romance and communicate with you when things are great and when things are challenging? This section is jam packed

  • 24 Explainer Videos that walk you through the course lesson on each page providing a few insights about what you can learn from understanding yourself even more

  • A 60+ Chapter personalized audio book that you can listen to as a playlist with detailed explanations and analysis of your specific results.

  • 20+ Relationship Dynamics Practices, Exercises, Practices and Tools you can develop to put all this information into use in the relationships that matter most

  • Discounts on Future Courses that we'll send throughout the year to get you hundreds off of the various online courses, masterclasses, workshops, and retreats we offer that MORE than pay for this course.

10. Can I retake this quiz for free and get another profile?

Yes. You can take this quiz as many times as you like. You can profile different relationships or even profile the same relationship at different times and get an in-depth analysis of your current relationship dynamics. You can do as many free summaries as you like.

If you also want the FULL profile and course on that person v you'll need to purchase an additional upgrade.

It’s important to understand that no one is made of stone and even if we do tend to have some patterns and behaviors that are consistent in all our relationships, over time as we develop, so do the relationship dynamics. The results you receive are not intended to be used as a ‘Typing’ system. Many typing systems describe our identity in a fixed and one dimensional way. It may be tempting to think of the results in this report as meaning something about you that is unchangeable, but that simply is not true. The summary reports will always be free but you will need to purchase the upgrade to receive the full individualized profiles for additional relationships..

11. Will my results be different if I take the quiz with a different person in mind?

The results you receive are not intended to be used as a ‘Typing’ system. Many typing systems describe our identity in a more fixed and one dimensional way. It may be tempting to think of the results in this report as meaning something about you that is unchangeable. Your results can be different if you re-take the Relationship Archetype quiz at different times and with different types or relationships in mind. It’s important to understand that no one is made of stone and this is not the kind of personality test that will tell you that you are and will always be a particular ‘type’. This Profile is meant to give you a window into how you are predominantly showing up in your relationships right now. It is a current snapshot of the most prevalent relational dynamics that are present in the relationship you had in mind and can be taken either with a romantic partner, business colleague, family member, or friend in mind.

12. Can I share my profile with others? Who can see my profile?

Yes! We highly encourage it. There is a ‘SHARE MY PROFILE’ button at the top of your Free Summary which will give you a special shareable link that you are welcome to send to others. In addition, if you purchased a full profile, you will receive an email in your inbox with a downloadable and shareable PDF you are welcome to send to your loved ones, business colleagues, family members, or friends. Please use the share button instead of copy pasting the URL, as this special link will allow them to see your results rather than showing a blank summary.

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